short update on my grandmother

I've been not posting about my grandmother because I didn't quite know how to say it....and I thought maybe I could ignore it and it would go away....but I see Molly just commented on the posting about my grandmother getting married and I feel compelled to let my readers know that my grandmother isn't getting married after all. My mom found out some things about John that made her uncomfortable, and she asked my grandma to reconsider. I suppose that a lesson can be made here: you're never too old to pull out just in the nick of time from a potentially stupid mistake. :-)